How to be more Interesting

“Charisma is not about you making people feel good about you, it’s about making people feel good about themselves.”

-Alpha’s School

Nowadays, with all the rush in life, people tend to spend their free time where they find peace, fun, and relaxation. And if you want someone to pay attention to you, even though they are busy, then you have to be more interesting, (or in proper words)charismatic person. After all there is no meaning of being too stressed or depressed about every problems you have in your life, enjoy every moment, be happy, and make others happy.

Now that we know that being Charismatic is a very attractive trait, now let’s see what is to be done to improve your charisma level. Here are 20 tips and ideas for you to be more interesting.

HOW TO BE MORE INTERESTING: (CHARISMATIC)

• Be a good listener: Either you want to be a good entrepreneur or a charismatic person, this right here, if you develop this habit in yourself, trust me you’ll be already much attractive, after all people love those who listen to them. So next time if your in a talk, pay attention.

• Be a good story teller: Now this a quality, you’ll need to develop if you’re already not good at it. People like it when someone really has a story for almost every situation. It’s not just being funny, it’s being creative that makes you more interesting. To improve your story telling start reading books, not necessarily story books, but start reading.

• Always have some stories: Yes just like you read, now to have a story for almost every incident is almost impossible. I know, I said to, but it’s impossible, because, to have a story for all situations, you need to have either watched anything like it before, experienced it, done it, or at least seen it. So at least try to go out more often, interact with people, watch movies, do interesting stuffs, adventures, etc.

• Show compassion: Nowadays, people are stressed as hell in their life, not every people need someone to make them laugh all the time, sometimes all they need is someone to show compassion, someone they know truly cares, so next time you see someone not in their regular energy, ask them their problem, just ask them that’s it, and tell them it’ll be alright, I’m here. And congratulations you’ve won and soothed a heart.

• Express yourselves: Not necessarily do you need to come up with a story all the time, sometimes, just express what you feel about it, what you truly feel. That honesty right there will make them feel interested to you.

• Interact: Yes this doesn’t mean the same, sometimes you can even ask questions in certain moments to lit it up. Like you can ask a girl if she is interested in branded products, and then make something up crazy funny comparing yourself to brands. Or just a normal question asked, when you didn’t understand something when talking with the other person.

• Talk about them: Now this is a main thing you need to understand, being interesting doesn’t means you’ll always keep on talking about yourself, in fact most of the time you need to be talking about the other person itself.

• Put your opinion: Now being interesting doesn’t mean you literally have to nod your head to everything they say, in fact correct them if they’re wrong, put up your ideas if you think it’s better, convey your opinion, give suggestions, say no. These are things that are bold and yet attractive, which is much interesting in a person with all the above skills.

• Never judge: Putting up your opinion on one hand, but try never to judge anyone on your basis. This will only end up in displaying yourself as a douche bag. Don’t do this.

• Be honest in what you speak: Now whatever you say, a story, an opinion, an idea, your feeling, etc., just never lie, it’s so unattractive and so weird if someone just lies to get somebody’s attention. Well yes of course you can make up imaginative stories that are not based on you.

• Complement: What else would make someone more happier than a perfect compliment, just be honest and complement something about someone that’s quite interesting.

• Be keen to learn: You want to be interesting, you want to be attractive, you want to be creative, then that’s really necessary for you to learn things you don’t know already. And a person who understands the fact that there’s a lot of things in life he/she has yet to learn a lot.

• Learn new skills: Just being keen to learn new things is not enough, you need to grab every possibility from which you can learn new skills. And always try to learn as much skills as possible.

• Don’t be awkward: And now here’s something, most of you might have already faced, or must’ve been in a situation where you felt kind of awkward or in a weird situation. We all want to never be awkward, but whenever we do new things or meet new people, sometimes awkward stuffs happen and that is completely natural. The best thing you can do to get out of such situation is by simply saying something like, “Well that was awkward”. And end the awkwardness in a complete cool and macho way.

• Share interesting things you do: You will not believe it, but you can even increase your charisma simply by one click, the ‘post’ button. Guys we all have different life and lifestyles, but we all have some stuffs not going out great for us, and at the same time, we have something particular and very exciting in our own life, and we can use those simple moments in our life just to make others aware of them, and show them how interesting your life actually is. It’s all about making them feel that being with you will make their life more merrier.

• Be passionate: Now being passionate about something is a very attractive, as it shows that the person is determined to do something and will and can do anything to get up the top in this world.

• Be a reader: To increase your communication skills, as well as creativity, and your vocabulary, nothing’s more better than reading books. It could be really anything, could be a magazine, a novel, newspaper, an autobiography, comics, etc.

• Have a sense of humour: You want to make people stick around you, you’ve got to be interesting to them, and the best and the most obvious way of doing that is by being funny and enjoyable. And to do so you really do need to have a good sense

• Go with the flow: Now this is a very common thing that you can do, whenever some conversation or a chat occurs between you and someone or a group, it is better for you to keep it real and go with the flow. If you go with the flow, you can always keep coming with some funny and interesting stuff that’ll grab others’ attention and be much more interesting to them.

• Keep it going: And always remember if you start some interesting stuff, never stop in the middle before you complete it.

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